You’ve been so brave this year. Yes, you can applaud yourself. It’s known to be uplifting and pleasing. But have you been loving your loved ones enough? Hmm. That is something to ponder over.
You talk to yourself a LOT. And when the phrase ‘a lot’ is being used, it refers to the fact that you constantly over-think, critique and analyze yourself. It could be in front of the mirror, or while staring at the ceiling of your bedroom or just looking out of the window.
But amid all this, how do you leave out the most important thing to think about?
So think: we always choose to take for granted what is already being given to us. Things such as food and emotions such as love. Like, you feel the swift rush of love in your heart when your Mother says something that is sweet and intrinsic to her maternal nature. But sometimes, you fail to reciprocate and then you end up becoming the worst daughter this Earth will ever host.
You forget what her favorite food dish is.
You forget her shopping list.
You forget what makes her tear up.
And, you forget that apart from being a person who caters to all your needs, she is also a brilliant woman who has desires of her own.
You forget that sometimes when you go shopping, she furtively expects you to come back and surprise her with something she has desperately wanted for a long time. It could be her favorite lipstick that just ran out or the fancy shampoo she has wanted for a long time but is somehow hesitant to buy by herself because she hates Materialism and loathes high maintenance even more.
You forget that your decision to help out in the kitchen should not be born out of obligation but out of compassion.
You forget that rambling on about your life and your miseries sidelines what she is feeling.
You fall. You fall like an ill-prepared solder on the battlefield. And so this letter should help and serve to you as a reminder to not view your mother as your mother ONLY.
View her as this goddess who experienced such visceral pain while giving birth to you that she almost blacked out.
View her as a woman whose mind is filled with drowsy dreams and candid curiosities.
View her as someone with a cerebral mind and a warm heart.
View your mother as a human being and not as a refuge to dump your emotional baggage in.
View her as your everything.
Yours truly and sincerely,